The Ache of a Miscarriage


Honestly, this 31 day series did not come at a good time for me.  I had been planning for several months to do a series on TTC in October.  I began compiling a list of different topics to address as well as ideas for people to guest post.

And then in August, I discovered I was pregnant.  It was odd, because even when I was staring at the positive test, something just felt off.  I wasn’t overwhelmingly excited as I would have expected.  I soon realized that something was indeed wrong and five days later I had a miscarriage.

We ended up getting pregnant again very quickly.  I discovered at the beginning of this series that I was pregnant again.  And then, two days ago….our precious baby went to heaven.

I have been putting off writing this post, because I don’t even know how to write about it.  And yet miscarriages can be such a huge part of TTC that I feel that it needs to be addressed.  Perhaps someday I will be able to blog about my experiences, but I do not feel that I am ready.

Tomorrow I have a guest poster who will share.  And the next day I will have a post for anyone who has had a loved one experience a miscarriage and ways you can help.


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5 thoughts on “The Ache of a Miscarriage

  1. Oh, Bonnie, my heart aches for you! I’m so sorry to hear this. I haven’t experienced miscarriage myself but many of my friends have and I’ve wept with them for the babies we’ll never hold. I can understand that it’s especially hard after it took you so long to conceive the Wingman. You are in my prayers! I wish I could give you a hug in person. And kudos to you for sharing all of this despite your pain. Blessings!

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